One of the most difficult things about coparenting a child after divorce or separation is respecting the other parent's rights to time with the child while keeping your own parenting rights secure. If you have a custody order, it outlines how you and your child's other parent agree to share parenting time and responsibilities, and courts expect parents to obey this order, not take it as a suggestion.
There is a fine line between enjoying alcohol and becoming dependent on it. You could drink day after day or even binge drink at a party without really having any kind of addiction or dependency issue. For other people, they can go weeks without drinking and still fall right back into an unhealthy routine the first time alcohol touches their lips.