Though the holiday seasons are something to look forward to, there are many challenges that can get in the way of a well-deserved break. This is particularly true for divorced parents. Many complications come with separation, such as deciding which parent the child will spend the holiday with. Other complications include changes to custody agreements, last-minute emergencies and out-of-state travel plans.
Changes to custody agreements
Sometimes divorced parents want to make changes to custody agreements to spend more time with their children. This can be tricky because this means both parents will need to read, review and update their existing custody agreements.
Last-minute changes to custody agreements, especially ones close to the holidays, can cause significant stress. Because of this, it is important for divorced parents to either agree or compromise on a holiday plan and follow it strictly.
Last-minute emergencies
Sometimes, last-minute emergencies such as storms, deaths in the family or work can get in the way of holidays. These problems might prevent parents from spending time with their children or taking custody for an unspecified amount of time. In the event of an emergency, it isit’s important for both parents to communicate and make adjustments to their plans. Parents can also discuss whether or not they can make up for missed time in the future, as well as alternatives to prevent disappointing their children.
Interstate or international travel plans
It is important for divorced parents to be transparent with one another when it comes to traveling with their children. Depending on their custody agreement, both parents might require consent to take their children on out-of-town trips. Maintaining communication might also be required in case of emergencies.
However, interstate or international travel plans involving the children of divorced parents can become difficult if consent is either not given or given too late. This can be prevented by obtaining consent from both the other parent and the court months before traveling.
Though the United States does not require evidence from both parents for a child to travel internationally, some countries do. For example, a child needs written permission to travel to the United Kingdom and New Zealand.
Getting legal advice
Navigating parenthood as a divorced couple comes with many unforeseen challenges – some of which can come with legal complications. Having an understanding of one’s rights and limitations can make co-parenting significantly easier for the entire family.
